(get in) Rapport

So I chatted to the horses about being in Rapport and practicing matching & mirroring their physiology, and this morning look what happened :-)

Rapport - the unconscious connection of trust

Teddy & Bertie in Rapport

Free Phobia Fridays

Free Phobia Friday Competition. 

Hi all, we want to know about your phobias. What are you carrying around that you don't want to. Tell us how it happens, how it is a problem and how it interferes with your daily life. Then each Friday during May 2012 the team will choose just one lucky winner who will be able to get rid of their phobia absolutely free of charge. 

Email your phobias to:

phobias@thetransformationalchangesteam.com along with your address and contact telephone number to be entered into the draw. 

Please note that successful applicants will be required to travel at their own expense to a mutually agreed venue for the coaching session. 

Motivation for Change

A question that I am frequently asked is 'So can you make me give up / do XX (smoking, beer, eat a raw onion etc?'

The answer of course is no. Nobody can unless you want to. That is the thing about the change work that I carry out, whether it be performance coaching, life coaching or therapy work. The client has to be committed to the extent that they will do whatever it takes to achieve the results that they want. To the extent that they do, they will get the result easily and effortlessly. If they don't they won't. Simple really.